Tal Como Eres _best_
Tomorrow morning, look at yourself before you do your hair or makeup. Don't say "I love you" (that feels fake). Just say: "I see you. You are still here."
Nobody has ever fallen in love with a résumé. They fall in love with the crack in your voice when you talk about your dreams. They fall in love with the way you laugh too loud. They fall in love with the scars you tried to Photoshop out. tal como eres
So here is your permission slip. You don’t need to lose ten pounds, earn a promotion, or find a partner to be worthy. You are not a draft to be edited. You are the final, living, breathing version. Tomorrow morning, look at yourself before you do
The Beauty of Being Real: Why "Tal Como Eres" is the Only Way to Live You are still here
If you want to live this phrase, stop trying to fix yourself for one hour. Do this instead: